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Talk Deeply, Be Happy
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People who spend more of their day having substantive discussions and less time engaging in small talk seem to be happier, a new study found. The New York Times reports:
“We found this so interesting, because it could have gone the other way — it could have been, ‘Don’t worry, be happy’ — as long as you surf on the shallow level of life you’re happy, and if you go into the existential depths you’ll be unhappy,” Dr. Mehl said. But, he proposed, substantive conversation seemed to hold the key to happiness for two main reasons: both because human beings are driven to find and create meaning in their lives, and because we are social animals who want and need to connect with other people. So as I write the House just approved the health care bill, and we could have a deep discussion about whether this was a good or bad thing — and we have gone into this from both sides on Tikkun Daily: e.g. Eli Zaretsky here:
Of course the bill will accomplish good, and this needs to be recognized. It will extend coverage and it will prevent some insurance company abuses.